Talk:Incel

"Often white" is inappropriate in the lede of this article.

You could say the same thing for virtually any large group. But we don't. We don't say that doctors or ballet dancers or geeks are "often white," even though it's assuredly true.

It's a weasel phrase. "Often white" - what does that even mean? What numerical threshold does a group have to cross to be considered "often white"? About 17% of professional basketball players are white - are professional basketball players "often white"?

And the sources cited don't particulary support the assertion. For example, source 23 from the Anti-Defamation League, "Online Poll Results Provide New Insights into Incel Community," says the following:

While roughly 55 percent of respondents identify as white or Caucasian, the remaining 45 percent of are equally divided among a range of ethnic and racial groups, including Black, Latino, Asian, Indian, Middle Eastern or Other/Not Sure.

Is 55% "often white"? Well, maybe - it's a weasel phrase - but considering that 81% of incels are from North America and Europe, white men actually appear to be *underrepresented* among incels, compared to the general population.

It would only be appropriate to say "often white" if the community was specifically about whiteness in some way - and no sources make any kind of case for that. It's baffling that anyone thought it was appropriate to put in the article.

The actual body of the article goes into detail about the nuances of race in the incel community. It isn't appropriate for the lede. KarakasaObake (talk) 18:59, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

The inline source used for that claim goes into significant detail about how the community is "specifically about whiteness"--see section "4.2. Abduction and ethnic identity". I think the discussion of whether this belongs in the lede is fair, but I don't think it's so cut-and-dry that it should be removed beforehand. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 19:07, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

There is no section 4.2 in the article.

There is, however, a section 2.3, which includes the text "and, among non-white incels, the "just be white" (JBW) theory, which suggests that Caucasians face the fewest obstacles to relationships and sex," explicitly refuting the idea that the community is "specifically about whiteness." KarakasaObake (talk) 19:09, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

Not sure which article you're talking about, but I'm talking about this one, which has a 4.2 as I described. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 19:13, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

Ah, sorry, I thought you were referring to the Wikipedia page itself. But the source you're referencing also explicitly refutes that the community is "specifically about whiteness." From the source:

"data suggest their orientation towards race and ethnicity is complex. Some incels advocate White nationalism, others discuss White privilege and intersectionality, while others still argue that incel-status trumps all other forms of identification"

"incels have (surprisingly) multifaceted discussions of race, ranging from support for White nationalism to critiques of White privilege. While social psychological theories predict that race/ethnic identity should operate as the more salient group identity in this context, we document instances where the opposite is true and incels assert the primacy of their incel identity"

And, again, you could say the exact same for doctors or ballet dancers or geeks: some advocate White nationalism, some discuss White privilege and intersectionality, and some are uninterested in racial identification. KarakasaObake (talk) 19:17, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

Yes, but doctors don't, as a whole, discuss their race as an inherent part of their being doctors. That paper shows that (presumably) an absolute majority of incels are white, and that self-definition as either white or less-than-white and is a strong trend in incel communities, which is not true of doctors or ballet dancers, so I don't think that's an apt comparison. Yes, the paper does also show that there is a current of inceldom-trumps-ethnicity, but I don't think that goes a long way towards saying that race is irrelevant to the topic. And that's just one source; there are three others in the inline citations to that statement. "Assessing the threat of incel violence" talks about The white supremacist discourse pervasive on incel forums. The WaPo article goes out of its way to say that What makes the incel culture different is that these are primarily heterosexual white men.... The NBC article talks about how “They’re young, frustrated white males in their late teens into their early twenties who are having a hard time adjusting to adulthood. They’re the same kinds of people you find in white supremacy writ large,” Beirich said. “They have grievances about the world they’ve placed onto women and black people.“ If these sources think it's relevant, I don't know why we wouldn't too. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 19:33, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

Incels also don't, as a whole, discuss their race as an inherent part of their being incels. Some do; most don't.

The only academic source we have on the issue is the one we've been discussing: Halpin and Richard's "An invitation to analytic abduction." They actually examined the community and said they were "surprised" by the multifaceted discussions of race taking place there.

Frankly, that is a far better source than WaPo and NBC. And Halpin and Richard specifically discuss how the popular media is misreporting incels:

"Using abduction, we've highlighted surprising findings: not only do incels discuss White privilege and intersectionality, but some members situate “incel” as a master status that unifies men across racial and ethnic groups. This finding reveals that incels are more heterogenous than reported, particularly in the popular media..." KarakasaObake (talk) 19:41, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

"some" =/= "most". "most don't" is unsupported by the current sources. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 19:43, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

"Most do" is also unsupported by the sources. The sources do say that about 55% of incels are white, so in order for "most" incels to be discussing whiteness as an inherent part of being incels, about 91% of white incels would need to be doing that. There is no claim in any source that this is the reality. KarakasaObake (talk) 19:53, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

Agreed (except for the wholly arbitrary 91% threshold), but the sentence in question didn't say "mostly white", it said "often white", which, given the information in the sources, is not realistically disputable. We have thre or four reliable sources that say that race is a relevant subject w/r/t incels, and one reliable source that says it's sometimes relevant and sometimes not, not being definitive either way--that sounds like a convincing reason to keep the sentence to me. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 21:28, 27 April 2022 (UTC)

The 91% figure isn't "wholly arbitrary", it's basic math. If 55% of incels are white, then for "most" incels to be discussing whiteness, then 91% of those 55% would be discussing it, that is: $0.91\times 0.55\approx 50.1\%$. ~Anachronist (talk) 12:04, 10 September 2022 (UTC)

Injecting unwarranted race hatred against White people, based on an isolated reference in the article look like a subtle hate crime. Please remove that isolated reference in the article, which is unsubstantiated by other quality and diverse references. Now, incel as "unable to get a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one" can happen anywhere, any place. Because of studies in white or European ethnicity groups and relative lack of such studies elsewhere is no reason to peddle hate here. 173.72.54.107 (talk) 18:47, 13 August 2023 (UTC)

@173.72.54.107 ...hate crime against white people to report on a source? i think it should be removed because its anglocentric, not because... its... a hate crime? theres no anti white hate crimes commemorative (talk) 15:06, 15 February 2024 (UTC)

The incel "movement" is not about racism. This is lazy thinking. This is much overlap between this group and others, with the common theme of victimization by society, but it is not accurate to characterize incels as white, or "supremacists" of any sort. This is cartoonishly stupid, as if the author(s) think anyone they disagree with is a nazi. 2601:47:477F:F240:6935:9FE1:C756:EC1D (talk) 14:23, 15 February 2024 (UTC)

@2601:47:477F:F240:6935:9FE1:C756:EC1D I dont think calling the authors of the article stupid and putting them in a charicature of your view of their supposed ideology is appropriate for Wikipedia. commemorative (talk) 15:04, 15 February 2024 (UTC)

How does 'they are described as' count as something factual? I can describe the Presidents of the US as as reptilian aliens from Alpha Centauri, so can I then factually include it on the Wikipedia article as factual? It is 'factually' based on assumption, and even worse, as you noted, to the exclusion of studies that contradict it. 193.119.44.239 (talk) 06:36, 27 November 2022 (UTC)

If you can get that published in reliable sources and journals, perhaps we can talk. I'm not sure which sources you're referring to as being excluded. GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 16:52, 27 November 2022 (UTC)

I agree. It's inappropriate and should be removed. Commemorative1 (talk) 08:34, 27 February 2023 (UTC)

Agreed. The claim is based on research done in the United States of America by the study of a limited group of people which, for obvious reasons, does not include all U.S. incels. Incidentally, the phenomenon is also present in other regions of the world. It makes no sense to include this globally inaccurate information in the lead. 37.0.81.237 (talk) 21:44, 7 February 2024 (UTC)

If you could provide reliable sources backing up those claims, it would be very helpful. Cheers. Dumuzid (talk) 22:12, 7 February 2024 (UTC)

There's a sizeable Japanese incel demographic in Japan, with east asian countries having incel terrorism like the US. I think it's pretty anglo-centric to have often white in the lede. commemorative (talk) 04:59, 8 February 2024 (UTC) commemorative (talk) 04:59, 8 February 2024 (UTC)

@Commemorative1 @Dumuzid The sources in this Wikipedia article specify that the study is done on a sample of 151 self-identified male incels – so by excluding the female sex and with limited numbers of respondents.

The incel-related forums are composed of anonymous users, so precise and necessarily correct demographics are not possible. However, we know for certain from the sources provided (e.g., the study, published in Evolutionary Psychological Science) that these are studies done in the U.S., thus not valid globally.

Apart from Asia, the phenomenon is also present in Europe; ethnics is not uniform there:

https://home-affairs.ec.europa.eu/whats-new/publications/incels-first-scan-phenomenon-eu-and-its-relevance-and-challenges-pcve-october-2021_en 37.0.81.238 (talk) 15:46, 8 February 2024 (UTC)

The one source you have provided (thanks for that) does not really address ethnicity beyond incel beliefs, and somewhat obliquely then (e.g., "German girls hate ethnics"). The rest of your argument certainly makes reasonable points, but I am afraid as currently presented it cuts much too close to original research. Cheers. Dumuzid (talk) 17:50, 8 February 2024 (UTC)

References

What about autistic people?

Whoever is writing all of this is extremely prejudiced against autistic people, people with social anxiety, and otherwise socially awkward people. This article is blatantly insulting to innocent people and it has no right to exist on Wikipedia or anywhere. I DEMAND THAT YOU CEASE AND APOLOGIZE!!! 37.0.88.17 (talk) 13:59, 2 August 2023 (UTC)

What about autistic people? This article has very little to do with them. They're mentioned in passing in the Mental health section, in the context of saying that some members of the incel subculture are autistic, but it says nothing about autistic people as a whole. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 14:33, 2 August 2023 (UTC)

"what about autistic people?"

They are almost all involuntarily celibate. Incel is not a label that is only self-applied. It is also an epithet used on socially awkward and/or unattractive people. This use of the word is not discussed in the article, which repeatedly uses the phrase "self-identified". Most of us were not self identified. We gave in, accepting the title. No one chose this. 2601:47:477F:F240:6935:9FE1:C756:EC1D (talk) 14:42, 15 February 2024 (UTC)

That is not what the reliable sources say; the reliable sources say that "incel" is a subculture, and while its members may or may not have chosen their state of "wanting a sexual partner but not being able to find one", they certainly did choose to associate with this subcommunity and make this a part of their self-identity. Nobody forced people to create and post on r/incels or whatever. To reuse my old analogy, "not being able to find a sexual partner" doesn't make you an incel--in the sense that reliable sources and therefore this article are talking about--any more than "generally not wanting fascism" makes you a part of Antifa, even though the literal denotation of the term "antifa" is just a contraction of "anti-fascist". If you find yourself using the word "incel" to refer to yourself, but find everything that this article describes about the beliefs and behavior of incels repugnant, then congratulations--you're a decent human being, and you should start considering whether you should find something else to refer to yourself instead, because this is what other people will infer about you when you use it for yourself.

Anyway, if you want this article to discuss the intersection of the incel subculture and autistic people, you will need to find a reliable source that explicitly connects the two. If you want the article to talk about the word "incel" as an insult specifically used against autistic people, you will need to find reliable sources that explicitly discuss that specific subject. You would certainly need a reliable source to support the assertion that "almost all autistic people are involuntarily celibate". Even then, this article might not be the right place for it--the word "gay" has a long and storied history as an insult that is not discussed at all in the LGBT community article. But regardless, without reliable sources that discuss and support these claims, there's really nothing further to discuss. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 15:26, 15 February 2024 (UTC)

• Personally, I think it's a little presumptuous to assume that autistic people are incels. GMG^talk 14:48, 2 August 2023 (UTC)

  Definitely, as one of the Autistic People, would prefer if we don't add "Autistic people are incels" to the article, I do sincerely apologise to the original poster though. commemorative (talk) 11:52, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

🙄 Roxwye (talk) 18:54, 22 January 2024 (UTC)

as an autistic person I think autism has some kind of relationship with incels: being introvert, excluded, having little social skills with people you are interested to etc, and it doesn't mean autistic people are bad, it's just that they tend to fall for those extremists trap more easily Avistemp (talk) 12:50, 15 April 2024 (UTC)

This is definitely true, autistic people are going to be more likely to be lonely, and lonely people are more easily radicalised, but I don't think that's the sort of thing that needs to be put into the article unless there is sufficient sources and it fits due weight. commemorative (talk) 12:59, 15 April 2024 (UTC)

Semi-protected edit request on 28 November 2023

Change this:

the term rose to prominence in the 2010s as it became _closer_ associated with an online subculture

to this:

the term rose to prominence in the 2010s as it became _more closely_ associated with an online subculture Roxwye (talk) 20:34, 28 November 2023 (UTC)

 Done. Thanks. Grayfell (talk) 08:17, 29 November 2023 (UTC)

Incel history

https://www.berghahnjournals.com/view/journals/democratic-theory/10/2/dt100207.xml?ArticleBodyColorStyles=pdf-4278

This article would help expand upon the history of the forums and how "incel" evolved over time.

Thebetoof (talk) 05:44, 1 December 2023 (UTC)

What is defined as an "incel attack?"

Nicholas Cruz isn't an incel he had a girlfriend Octalh (talk) 16:23, 28 December 2023 (UTC)

Contested edit

@JusticeAccount3: Regarding this revert, can you please clarify what in that source supports that that individual "worshipped" Elliot Rodger? GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 15:19, 6 February 2024 (UTC)

maybe I should've said "supported"

why is it such a big deal for you? JusticeAccount3 (talk) 17:01, 6 February 2024 (UTC)

Because your source didn't support the statement, and we require all claims in Wikipedia articles be verifiable. GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 17:50, 6 February 2024 (UTC)

I swapped in a better source and changed to "praised" per the source. Firefangledfeathers (talk / contribs) 17:05, 6 February 2024 (UTC)

Thank you. GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 17:50, 6 February 2024 (UTC)

Incel As a Form of Sexual Slander

Incel is self-evidently a form of sexual slander, used to attack rather than discuss. It is a sex-based slur, since it is oriented towards men only, and also discriminates on the basis of relationship status. It's core claims about some amorphous unfuckable menace are obviously incorrect on their face, since basic criminology 101 is that violence is highly correlated with reproductive success. It has even been postulated as a reproductive strategy. This is very clearly a politicized term, with zero consensus about that to which it refers, if anything. It is associated with far-left extremist ideology and groups which typically support cross sex hormone use, forced race training, and intensified discrimination in hiring/legal system.

This is a core problem with this sorry excuse for an article. It is an exercise in elaborate contempt for reality and the obvious competency crisis afflicting our institutions.

If you want to contest this specific criticism that this article is itself a form of biased, sexual, political henhouse behavior with no academic value please do more than assert, lazily, that my concerns are too "general." That is extremely specific.

This article is predicated on political lying. It violates Wikipedia's tenets of neutrality. You can't dispute this, so you have to exclude the topic from the debate. 2603:9000:E700:6050:7D54:9757:72A0:AB00 (talk) 20:49, 16 February 2024‎ (UTC)

I mean, I can certainly dispute it, from the fact that it is often a self-given label to the fact that the first person to use the term was female. Your critiques will be more effective if you cite to reliable sources. Cheers. Dumuzid (talk) 21:06, 16 February 2024 (UTC)

@Dumuzid I'm completely ignoring the IP's comments, but it can happen. TERF was a self-given label that was later claimed by the same group to be a slur. EvergreenFir (talk) 21:24, 16 February 2024 (UTC)

Fair point! But I still think it is evidence contrary to the idea that is a self-evident form of slander. Have a nice weekend! Dumuzid (talk) 21:38, 16 February 2024 (UTC)

@EvergreenFir: This is probably a little off topic, but I'm not sure I understand how TERF is a self-given label. GMG^talk 12:02, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

I guess it was coined by a radical feminist, though not necessarily one who is anti-trans. But it did come from with the radfem groups EvergreenFir (talk) 18:29, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

Makes sense Dumuzid. However, WP:RS do indeed assert that 'incel' is used as slander, and unfortuneatly to a "ubiquitous" extent. Often against men who arent in a relationship, but not involved with the sub culture. While most of those WP:RS have been purged from the article, a few remain – see "Incel" has also come to be used as an insult against people who do not necessarily identify with the subculture, but who are perceived to be sexually inexperienced, undesirable, or unpopular in the Lexicology section.

It may be worth pointing out how "incel" has came to be such as impactful slur. Pior to the creation of this article back in 2018, the few quality WP:RS using the term incel invariably did so with the literal meaning (i.e. synonymous with "unwanted celibacy" , a term scholars are increasing using now incel has became such a pejorative.) As such, pre 2018 use of the word incel in the high tier WP:RS (there were admittedly exceptions in lower tier sources) often involved looking at incels sympathetically. Just as intended when the term was originally coined by Alana.

It was this article that redefined incel to refer to a self identified member of the sub-culture. As has been forensically demonstrated on this talk page, the 2018 sources that were cited in support of the term being used primarily to refer to members of the subculture did not actually contain that usage. But the article still redefined the term that way anyway. Due to Wikipedia's influence and the articles high ranking in search results, the new meaning was swiftly adopted by journalists & academics. This led to the creation of many thousands of WP:RS reflecting the then new useage. Which in turn allowed the development of the long standing sentence in the lede introducing incels as characterized by deep resentment, hatred, hostility, sexual objectification, misogyny, misanthropy, self-pity and self-loathing, racism, a sense of entitlement to sex … If one manages to read that full sentence there are over a dozen dehumanising nouns and other intensifiers that are liable to evoke repulsion against incels. It's arguably the most expansive demonising sentence in the history of humanity.

Such a lede might be more understandable if Incels really were largely comprised of misogynistic alt-righters. But they're not. His Majesty's government has just published findings from the worlds largest & most rigorous study of incels to date. (Which has been widely reported both state side & in UK, hence the recent influx of IP interest) It emphasised incel's "very poor mental health” and the fact that incels are politically centre-Left on average. ( But the "5% who agreed that violence against individuals that cause incels harm is often justified were politically centre-right”)

Getting back on topic , even back in 2020 sources were reporting that incel was used as a ubiquitous online insult against less romantically successful men. Sadly according to a 2023 finding from Pew Research, almost 70% of US young men are now single (showing that "Incels aren't even a minority group anymore" as another source put it.) That's an awful lot of young guys in the cross hairs for the ubiquitous insult, which many will internalise with all sorts of adverse consequences. Such as the unprecedented recent finding that Gen Z males are now more anti feminist than their older peers. And sadly, with so much distress in the male half of the youth population, young women aren't immune to contagion effects. Among young women, indicators of poor mental health, suicidal ideology & actual attempts have risen sharply since 2019. (Much more sharply than among men, and mostly due to reasons unconnected with incels -cf. Jean Twenge -, though it is a factor.)

Its not all doom & gloom. The 2023 result found only about 30% of young women were single – far less than less than for young men. The discrepancy is in part due to polygyny. And partly the welcome fact that women who lean that way are now more free to form Lesbian pairings. But a far bigger factor is parings with senior men. At least on a secular & individualist level, the benefits when a heterosexual middle aged man pairs up with a new young women are considerable. There can be a months long surge in testosterone, which among other benefits is anxiolytic & often promotes good sleep. With other pleasure inducing hormones, the overall long term effect is better than is possible with any recreational drug. Nothing lasts forever, but with the competition from young men much reduced thanks to the ubiquitous, confidence destroying "incel" insult, it's easy for a senior man of even moderate desirability to find another interested young women. And once again all is groovy.

Still, as a member of that demographic myself, Im confident that only a minority are selfish enough to welcome the help of Wikipedia here, given the impact on less privileged groups. Accordingly, I suggest re-writing this article from scratch. As per my offer back in 2020, I'm happy to do all the work myself, if that's agreeable? ( Im not though up for is engaging is lengthy talk page discussion as happened back then. After many hours of discussion, consensus for most of my proposed changes to make the article more sympathetic to incels was finally achieved on this talk page. Only for most of the improvements to be reverted a few days later! Despite having rewrote many controversial global scope articles, usually the hundreds of hours of research I put into article improvement result in my work remaining in place even more than a decade later. So I'd like to have a plurality of 3 admins agree to my rewrite proposal, without having to further discuss. ) If that's not possible and admins prefer to address the issues here themselves, I'd respectfully suggest they consider going for greater fidelity to what the quality WP:RSs actually say, and closer adherence to WP:OR and WP:NPOV. FeydHuxtable (talk) 16:34, 17 February 2024 (UTC)

Speech aside, let's look at your sources:

• this study draws a distinction between incels and people experiencing "unwanted celibacy", yes, but since does specifically use the word "incel" fairly freely, I don't see how one can resonably conclude that it's drawing a distinction because "incel" is pejorative. Rather, it's doing so because it, like this Wikipedia article, is drawing a distinction between "people experiencing unwanted celibacy" and members of an online community whose main stated grievance is that they desire to have romantic and sexual relationships but are unable to do so. In fact, it says explicitly that we use the term unwanted celibacy rather than involuntary celibacy because the latter term is sometimes used to refer specifically to Incels (e.g., Moskalenko et al., 2022), whereas we posit an association between unwanted celibacy and misogyny that applies generally. It's doing the same exact thing this article is doing.
• You use this study as an argument against incels being misogynistic and alt-right. It certainly supports the idea that incels aren't exclusively alt-right, but funnily enough, the Wikipedia article never actually disagrees; the most it does is say that there is overlap with right-wing groups (usually attributed, not in Wikipedia's voice). It does say that incels are misogynistic, but so does this source: Participants perceived high levels of victimhood, anger and misogyny. They also acknowledged a shared worldview among incels which includes identifying feminists as a primary enemy.
• the source cited in this edit you linked is from UnHerd, which is not a particularly reliable source. ref
• this does not directly discuss incels, and so isn't relevant (and is a blog).
• this is a blog hosted on Medium, making it an unreliable, self-published source.
• this isn't relevant.
• this isn't relevant.

So, I'm curious what *actually* reliable sources you're intending to base any rework of this article on, because none of these seem to be both reliable and supportive of your intended changes. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 17:29, 17 February 2024 (UTC)

The proposed rewrite would still prominently feature the fact there's much misogyny on incel forums. Inline with what you say, that not something even the most incel-sympathetic quality sources deny. Sorry for giving the wrong impression there.

The re-write would be based partly on the collab between Austin & Swansea universities. Per it being hailed as the biggest and most rigorous study of incels to date, its more compassionate and realistic take should supersede much of the older, low quality sources used in the article. (Though I concede this argument will be stronger once it completes peer-review and is published in a reputable journal.) I've about 35 academic & quality journalistic sources in mind for the re-write. But if admins dont buy the case that this article is harmful due to the way it intensifies the incel insult, I'm not sure it would help to list them out. The sources could be dismissed as cherry picked, and in a sense rightly so; they're outnumbered > 10:1 by less compassionate WP:RS (albeit that wasn't the case prior to the redefinition of the incel term by this article, soon after its creation back in 2018.)

The source for the insult being 'ubiquitous' may have been published in unherd, but it's author is James Bloodworth who has impeccable left wing credentials. He's been featured by Bernie Sanders and hailed by Nick Cohen as the "best young leftwing writer Britain has produced in years". In the last few days alone, multiple IPs have complained about the insult being "used on socially awkward and/or unattractive people.". A large majority of young men experience at least short periods of social awkwardness. The article currently has other sources about the slur being used on non subculture men. I'm not seeing how it can be disputed that it's a thing. As per sources above, there's evidence over 10 million American young men haven't had sex once in the past year, with a much higher percentage who are single. That's a huge number of targets for the incel insult! Which per basic sociology since the time of Goffman risks being internalised, with devastating consequences for the youths self esteem. I'm not claiming that Wikipedia is mostly responsible for this phenomena, not even 1% responsible, but we are but we still moving the dial in that direction.

If admins dont approve the rewrite I hope they'll at least consider addressing the "characterized" sentence that opens the 2nd para of the lede. Don't think there's any one source that comes anywhere close to packing so many dehumanising and contempt inducing nouns in their introduction to incels. Granted, as an encyclopaedia it's often a good thing that we offer more comprehensive descriptions than any single source. But in this case the lede is acting as an attack on a group, with collateral damage including intensifying the world's single most confidence destroying insult against non subculture but romantically unsuccessful men. WP:BLP does in part discourage attacks against groups (Albeit it's complex, can need in depth discussion; I'm not claiming there's a blatant violation here, just that it should be a consideration.)

Look, no reasonable progressive could fail to understand the good faith reasons for any activism behind the 2018 redefining of the incel term. Many would see it as a good use of WP:IAR, per the potential to oppose the alt-right. But surely it's now clear the article is somewhat missing the mark in that regard, and may even be self defeating to progressive causes. So it would be nice to have a more do no harm, NPOV approach. I'm still happy to be the one that does the work for this, if it's agreeable. But I've already given the reasons why I'm not up for a repeat of the extensive source based discussions I had here back in 2020. I'm going to return to this page in a week's time. If I don't see a plurality of 3 admins approving the re-write proposal, I've going to leave this topic for at least another year. End of conversation. FeydHuxtable (talk) 17:12, 19 February 2024 (UTC)

Look, the first sentence in the summary of your purported (unpublished) best source says: Incels are a sub-culture community of men who forge a sense of identity around their perceived inability to form sexual or romantic relationships. If you're expecting that to support your desire to "reverse the redefinition" or whatever, I don't think that source is going to help. If you want to rewrite this article to be about "unwanted celibacy", you're going to need sources that actually discuss it in those terms. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 17:19, 19 February 2024 (UTC)

Semi-protected edit request on 27 February 2024

Under History, first sentence: "The first website to use the term "incel" was "Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project", founded in 1997 by a university student living in Toronto, and known only by her first name, Alana, to discuss her sexual inactivity with others ..."

Request: REMOVE unfounded claim of studentship in Toronto. Sources do not corroborate this claim.

Further, many sources claim Alana graduated from Carleton University, which is in Ottawa. Eg. From [148] (cited on the page): "In the 1990s, [Alana], then a student at Carleton University in Ottawa, Ontario, created an all-text website she called "Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project.""

Updated sentence (CHANGE TO): "The first website to use the term "incel" was "Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project", founded in 1997 by a student at Carleton University in Ottawa, and known only by her first name, Alana, to discuss her sexual inactivity with others ..." TPana (talk) 17:20, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

The BBC article cited for that sentence says: She was living in Toronto, Canada, and started the website, Alana's Involuntary Celibacy Project, for those who were struggling to form loving relationships.. I feel that mentioning what university she was attending is a little too much detail, personally, but YMMV. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 18:01, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

Maybe we should just update it to say she was a Canadian university student? I'm not sure it's terribly important for the article to mention whether she was living in Toronto or Ottawa. GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 19:22, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

That sounds reasonable, for sure. Writ Keeper ⚇♔ 19:27, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

 Done GorillaWarfare (she/her • talk) 19:34, 27 February 2024 (UTC)

"Often White" should be removed

"Often white" is false and has no actual reliable source or stats that show this, the only source listed says basically the opposite + its based on the stereotype white = bad oppressors, which is literally racism Avistemp (talk) 12:41, 15 April 2024 (UTC)

There are several sources listed and while the headline of the first one might suggest otherwise that article says "A smaller proportion than would be expected by chance identified as white (63.58%), with 36.42% identifying as BIPOC." Other sources also support the statement.Sjö (talk) 12:55, 15 April 2024 (UTC)